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Conversation Between ellen h and PMG

Conversation Between ellen h and PMG

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11-10-2010 09:47 PM - permalink
ellen h

Sounds like you had a good time-hope you had a good kip too!! I must try to get to a meet next year,would love to meet fellow WABbers.....How are is everyone?All is ok here at the mo-spent yesterday tidying the garden,mowing the lawn etc.Getting ready for the weather to turn-its meant to be getting colder and more autumnal,will have to get the jumpers and thermals out soon lol!!
11-10-2010 06:09 AM - permalink
PMG

Just back from the wab Clumber meet - it was fantastic as usual - the banter is non-stop and the fungi were good - excellent this year! Pity I forgot the one thing that mattered most (no not the camera - my earplugs - so I could sleep thro the first half of the night (when the rest don't go to bed but get stuck into the microscapy and wine!!) and then spend the second half snoring (tho our room partner didn't thank god!!!!!! I didn't need any rockin last night back here at home!!!
05-10-2010 07:05 PM - permalink
ellen h

Just sent you an email and now have read this-should have seen this first lol...
So glad your mam seems to be settling in,she may still get confused at times but in her lucid moments you have your mam back:) Must be a weight of your shoulders to know she is in a home where they are looking out for her...
Hope you and Ian can have more time together and get out and about taking more fantastic photos-though hear the weather has been iffy lately up your way!! We have got of lightly by all accounts,its rained at times but not as heavy as some parts of the country..
18-09-2010 08:43 PM - permalink
PMG

Mam was looking much better today - her face colour had gone back to pink from grey and yellow earlier in the week and she looked reasonably happy and un anxious. Then we made a daft mistake - cos she kept asking about going out for a walk - but didn't actually want to go when I asked her - but I then suggested we have a walk around the grounds - as I hadn't been round the outside yet. Ian and I walked her round twice and by the time we got her back indoors she was wide-eyed, didn't recognise the place, forgotten where her room was and was anxious and fretting and thoroughly disorganised .......... oh boy - can't do right ........ so we've learned from here on no matter what she says we leave her there and don't do anything out of the routine until she is thoroughly engaged with the routine ..............
18-09-2010 08:40 PM - permalink
ellen h

Well,fingers crossed its "going of"nicely....will make a note of your advise tho-never know when we may need it lol. Yes mum swears sometimes she can hear dad telling her how to diy round the house,I know I feel his presence when driving-funny that eh?
18-09-2010 08:33 PM - permalink
PMG

Good grief! Mixing concrete - whatever will she do next?! I haven't mixed concrete for a couple of years now - we had it to do at work often enough - tho stuff like wooden car park posts were not supposed to be concreted in (they get hit and need replacing quite often - so digging a huge amount of concrete out as well was not good). Lets hope yours has set and 'gone off' ok and doesn't contains any of Rusty's or any passing moggys pawprints!!! You can buy stuff that makes concrete 'go off' quite fast and 'post mix' to add to dry concrete which makes it set fast - useful when we were erecting signs in public places and didn't want the kids knocking them over straight away we left!
18-09-2010 08:25 PM - permalink
ellen h

Hi Pauline, been reading messages,I hope mam is ok,though she will probably take some time to settle into a new routine I am sure she will be well looked after.....know its draining for you though as its a decision not taken lightly!
Have spent day in garden with mum,tidying the place up a bit.Mum also had a go at mixing up some concrete to repair part of the drive and a step-we shall see if its set and not crumbling in the morninglol!!
14-09-2010 09:10 PM - permalink
PMG

Its only across Leigh and I can come and go in there as I want - tho whether I will visit tomorrow is another matter - I can't stand much more of the emotional wrangle at the min and she plays me up so much but is ok with others - it makes my blood boil - what the hell does she want from me? Sorry I'm tired to drained and am defo going to bed - I said I was a while ago and then drifted into here instead of keeping going to the stairs!!!! Weather was glorious here this aft but roads were flooded for a short spell in places while I was going to Burnley. Have a lovely day tomorrow - I have the hairdressers at 9am and then come back and get onto the social workers and see what happens next. I can't go and take her back home next Mon just to go thro another day like this - I will be a basket case if there's much more stress like this .........
14-09-2010 03:35 PM - permalink
ellen h

I hope mam settles down in the home again,does she talk of what its like? Perhaps she may find someone who she could befriend in there.......
Just getting ready for me walk-Rusty is asleep beside me at mo,he wont hear me getting his lead but will be ready before I get me coat on!!!
Still raining-well drizzling!!
14-09-2010 03:07 PM - permalink
PMG

Well things have moved on apace: I got her home and left her there and all went quiet for the night and part of the morning - so much so I began to wonder if she was there or ok? Then at dinnertime the phone began - I'm trying to drive back from the dentist at Burnley - while she is crying down the phone every few mins and threatening to do herself in .... long story short - she's back in Bedford Care for a week and I've come home for a brew (not had a drink since 8am) and some sanity before going back to her house to pack her bag (again - why did I unpack it and why couldn't I see this coming?) and yet when I get her in the car she starts crying that she's leaving her home .... heavens to murgatroiyde ...... I don't know which way is up! PS Enjoy your days off the weather after heavy rain here has turned rather nice - not that I'm seeing much of it - but still!!!!

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