Ok thanks for your reply Guy.
We have just googled it; and we are both sitting here thinking it could be but in all honesty it seemed bigger and hairy-er like i said before more like a bumble bee than a beetle.
i guess we need to catch one to make sure, problem is they only come out at dusk so we only get to see them in the fading light and they look quite scary and not something i'd like to get that close too!
also, just like to add they dont just fly around the tree, thats where they are nesting it would seem.
if we catch one we'll post a picture and hopefully this will either confirm your identification or not.
watch this space, and thanks again!
geoff.