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Originally Posted by Boddie  In contrast to most I did not enjoy the time I spent in the RAF. No individuality - you are, and always will be, a number. Scant chance to shine - very political and someone always considers you a threat. Poor pay - considering hours worked. Discipline was not really a problem, but it helps if you are fit.
In my opinion there are no good postings anymore. And those that are good are more for detachments, and therefore not really family friendly. Most folk I know cant wait to get out but reallly struggle to adjust when they do so as too much structure makes for anally retentive individuals. Luckily I was earning more money at the weekend than I was taking home with the RAF so bailed from what was meant to be a dream job - Avionics Technician. Best move I ever made.
Just my opinion by the way and I have been military and non military. |
Although I agree with the gist of what you say Boddie I can't agree to the your main thrust. Sounds like you had some bad experinces and, perhaps, some poor managers. This can happen to anyone in any career, don't you agree?
I did 24 years - I have been 'normal' now for 13 years - and I had not one problem with leaving the RAF and adjusting. The secret is that you just view it as a job - any job - with some unusal aspects and perks - but a job nontheless. Maintaining individuality is as much a problem in a factory, IT or the city. At the end of the day we are all the sum of our experiences - good and bad. But you are right on one thing - all the really good postings have gone. But, it IS possible to maintain your own identity without becoming a clone. No issue - just seeking a balance.