Thank you to everyone who welcomed me, it was really nice and I can't believe how happy I was just to see the messages!
Yes to Goosey, it is me so you don't look stupid
( I bet that's a relief).
Also, thank you to nightshade for your interest, my yard is roughly 13ft x 6ft (I've just been out to measure it and nearly got blown away!) I would really like to encourage butterflies as I don't see many here throughout the summer at all. I also hardly get any sun, just in the mornings till about 10am. I am looking for something quite simple but cheerful.
Thanks
Monkster