Chanty,
I have just read your post (No 12)
I am really amazed at the irresponsible things people will do just to eat ANY wild fungi. You describe a fawn and flakey 'tongue' which goes grey when cooked
Alarmingly you say 'it looks odd, so not eating'
And then to cap it all you ask if anyone knows what it is.
Please be safe ....... pop into Smiths, buy something called a Will, take it home and fill it in.
Neil.