[Stella*]

Hello everyone,

Thank you for all of your kind words. Things have been getting a whole lot worse than the day I posted. After the confrontation, to prove my parents wrong, they’ve been putting out washing everyday. Despite how they’re in the house, they leave it out from ten in the morning, until seven/eight at night as though wanting birds to poo on it so they have their proof.

In answer to your questions, we have sparrows, blue tits, black birds and the odd pigeon here and there, but not very often anymore. We haven’t attracted the seagulls, they fly overhead, but never come in to have a bite to eat. (Somehow I have a feeling he’ll blame us for birds that fly over his house next!)

I just get the feeling that no matter what we do he’ll find a reason to argue. He even has his blinds facing our garden as though fixated on it. It’s not a nice feeling, but from reading all of your kind words, I know we can’t be doing anything wrong. I’ll see if my parents think it a good idea to change the feeding method, and see what happens then.

Thank you for listening to me, I was finding it hard to face this on my own.