Sounds like you've had a rough time of it. Keeping your pecker up (as my aunt used say!) is quite difficult at times - all you can do is keep going.... The school should be ashamed and I thought of petitions and things but would you really want to run things alongside that type of person? A woodland sounds good - there is a website with them on will look it out for you and pm you with it over the weekend (pm and nudge me if you don't hear as I can be forgetful!) - most don't give you planning permission though. Good Luck
xxx