Hi Duncan
The Chilterns are an excellent area for Red Kites with easy viewing from the M40 .... as a passenger of course

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I am not aware of any feeding stations but I do vaguely recollect reading somewhere on the Internet that one of the pubs in Watlington did feed the Red Kites.
Sorry, I have no further information .... I guess you will have to do a bit of research and visit all the pubs

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Richard